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Marriage tips for Intending Couples

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It is good to get yourself equipped with the necessary tips about marriage before saying I do. Marriage can be lovely and enjoyable when couples understand that marriage comes with responsibility and you are bound to fulfill those responsibilities unless your marriage will become another tragic movie.

Marriage is not a place you can live as you are when you were single. You have to understand that another human is by your side. You have to carry him or her along. I will outline some tips for intending couples who really want to make their marriage great.

1. Do not be rude to your partner it creates vacuum in the heart of your partner.

2. Don’t go to bed without settling the misunderstanding or quarrel you had with your spouse during the day.

3. Learn to treat your partner like a baby. I always advice women to know that whenever you give birth to your new baby, just remember that you now have two babies to take care of. Men have baby nature in them that always want to be pampered.

4. Learn to settle your dispute between yourselves avoid involving third party in your dispute.

5. Court with your partner before settling down, it helps you to know if two of you are compatible.

6. Avoid calling your partner by his name, use sweet name instead.

7. Learn to support your partner, yes he’s the man but your little support can save him some stress.

8. Be a companion, comforter and a helpmate to your partner. When a woman stops being a companion to her husband, she’s just inviting trouble in her home.

9. Give all your love to your partner don’t go outside to experiment with young boys or girls outside you marriage. Major cause of divorce these days is infidelity; avoid such so that you can have peace in your home.

10. Remember not to stop doing those things that made him or her fall in love with you. This is where couples make mistake, when they final get what they wanted they stop doing those things that made their partner fall in love with them.

11. Do not suffocate your partner with bad character, learn to talk soft and avoid using harsh voice when you communicate.

12. Give all your love to your partner; make him to always yearn for you and your body all the time. Some women think that the best way to get something from their husband is to start denying him their body. That’s a big mistake, do not be like those women.

13. Do not be hard in forgiving your partner whenever he asks for it. Forgiveness is what makes marriage last long. Without forgiveness no marriage will last.

14. Do not call your spouse “useless man”

15. Learn to build trust with your partner. Trust is very vital in marriage if you want to sleep with your two eyes closed without fear, build trust with your spouse.

16. Support each other. Women should know that supporting your husband in marriage will never make him a lesser man rather he will see more value in you.

17. Do not wash your dirty linen outside for all to see, no matter how grieved you are, do not take your marriage issues outside your home.

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Ten Signs To Know If You Have Found Your Soul Mate

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The dream of every young man and woman is to get married to their soul mate, your one and only; the person worth spending the rest of your life with. Many people go into marriage and rush out sooner than expected because of not being with the right person.

Marriage is a beautiful thing when you are with the right person. Many young man and woman die early as a result of not being with their actual soul mate. Soul mate simple means the person that you have a special friendship with because you understand each other feelings and interests.

When you are one soul with your partner this life will be a paradise to you. In this post am going to point out ten signs to know if you have found your soulmate.

Compatibility:

The first thing to check out when trying to know who your soul mate is; how compatible both of you are. Compatibility is the ability of people or things to live together without problems. To have a good relationship, friends must be able to understand each other and should be willing to make the relationship work.

Though there is no relationship devoid of problems but the ways and manner you handle issues in your relationship matters most. The way compatible people behave and play with each other differs from the way those in abusive relationships do.

Compatibility means both of you can talk heart to heart; this simply means understanding each other’s mind all the time. When two lovely souls matches together, they can communicate non-verbally and still understand each other very well.

To know if you have found your soulmate you must consider the level of compatibility both of you share. People marry for different reason and your reason of marrying is what determines whether you have to carry out all these checks. For instance, a lady who is so desperate to settle down may not have all the time for soul searching.

Like vision/aspiration:

Different people have their different views and vision about life. In marriage is advisable to marry the person that shares like vision with you. Couples that have similar vision and aspiration will do well in marriage.

Willingness to forgive:  

A forgiving heart is a receiving heart; two great souls that match together will always love to forgive each other at all time. Your willingness and eagerness to forgive wrong done to you by your partner is a sign of soul match. When two people are in a relationship and one person is always willing to forgive and the other always cling to offense, the two of them would hardly make a good soul mate.

Attention:

Another way you can know your soul mate is by the kind of attention the person gives to you. If your friend is too busy to know how you are faring, is a glaring sign you have to take very serious. He/she may not change in marriage.

Protect your interest:  

Your soul mate will always protect your interest. When your friend is eager to protect your interest, give your soul rest, stop searching, he’s the one. Nowadays some couples love to expose their spouse weakness. It’s not supposed to be so. If you are on soul searching and your friends doesn’t care about your own interest, please trade with caution.

Heart communication:

Heart communication is a way of knowing if two souls match together. Heart communication is not what you develop over night, it comes gradually. When two people stays for a period of time they tend to understand each other very well, they don’t have to voice out everything before their partners understand. Their look, action, can trigger a communication.

Understanding:

You can know your soul mate by the level of understanding both of you share. ‘Marriage is not a bed of roses’ some would say but couple with high level of understanding can still make their marriage a paradise.

Willingness to help:

Women are created to be a help mate to their husband. Your soul mate must be the one willing to help at all time.

Mutual trust:

Trust is a vital ingredient in a relationship. When trust is not there, suspicion start to creep in, quarrel grows, and friends will start having bad thought among themselves. Is always good to settle down with the person you can trust. Many marriages today are having issue of trust. Any marriage where there’s lack of trust, check it, it doesn’t last long

Over-protective:

Only valuable things can be protected, when your partner becomes over protective towards you; it means he sees value in you. Value he does not want another guy to snatch away from him. These are the ten signs to know if you have found your soulmate. If your friend doesn’t have any of these, think twice before saying I do.

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Hot Relationship Tips that will make your love life better

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The social nature in man will always desire to interact with his fellow humans, interaction that is devoid of quarrels, misunderstanding and malice. Humans are social and emotional beings that wants to love and be loved.  In our today’s world where love and hatred are the two major forces opposing each other, we will always find fulfillment when we stick to love.

In this post am going to share those hot relationship tips that will make your love life better.

Communication:

The ingredient of every relationship is communication. Any relationship that lacks communication dies. Two lovers that want to grow in love should maintain a good communication level.

Do not hold on to the past:

In every relationship there is always a time when two lovers can misunderstand each other or even have a quarrel, some may even fight, but if you really want your relationship with your lover to grow deeper, do not hold on to those past.

Attention:

If you want your love life to take a good dimension learn how to pay attention to your partner. Do not overlook his or her presence when around you.

Appreciation:

A girl can easily fall in love for you when you know how to appreciate her. Little things matter in relationship, appreciation is one of them. Appreciating your lover will go a long way in solidifying your relationship. Appreciate very thing she does to please you.

Do not insult your lover:

Insults are like hammer that breaks the heart of young lovers. When you feel offended, do not resort to insult as a means to relieve yourself. Those hard words you say to your friends when you are offended can only create division in his heart. Insults doesn’t correct rather it destroys.

Compliment:

Human being loves praise and admiration. We all feel great when we are being praised or admired by the one we love and care about. Compliment your lover and see how both of you will grow intimately in love.

Ask him what he hate about you:

Many young lovers always shy away from telling their lover things they do they that irritate them. Asking your friend or husband what he hates about you will not end your relationship, rather it would be an eye opener for both of you to know the necessary changes to make in order to make a good relationship.

Do not let your anger exceed one day:

Misunderstanding will always occur in a relationship but the way and manner you handle issues in your relationship is what matters most.

Is very vital to resolve any issue with your lover before the day sun goes down; the essence of these is to avoid creating loophole in the heart of your lover.

What do I mean by loophole? It simply means that the heart that was totally in love with you is now divided; if such should happen it pose a great challenge to the future of your relationship.

Sweet names:

The ear wants to hear sweet things because it makes the heart glad. If you have not being calling your loved ones sweet names start it now.

 Those little things we overlook in our relationships are what always come to cause trouble in our relationship. If you like petting, extend that hand to your lover, don’t just be the receiver only.

Don’t say things you don’t mean in a relationship:

These has caused many young people heart break. When you are in a relationship, is right and good to say what you mean and mean what you say to avoid shattering somebody’s heart.

If you wish to settle down with your lover tell her if you really mean business but if not don’t tell her you want to settle down with her when you knew that your heart is far away from making her your one and only.

Take care of “caring”.

Do not be confused by my choice of word. When a man takes good care of a girl like providing for her needs; the girl would always refer such man as a caring man. When I say take care of caring am simply telling you to take care of him that care about you.

Many girls abuse these like acting as super hero when a man shows much care and commitment in the relationship. You may think that you are the most pretty or that he cannot find another lovely girl to replace you, you are mistaken. Am just saying, don’t lose your man by “showing I don’t care attitude”.

Keep to promise:

Relationship is like a journey, if you don’t follow the actual route it would land you to unplanned place. Keeping promise will help your relationship to remain in the actual route.

Love what he loves:

When two people come together to build a good relationship, there must be an adjustment in their ways of life in other to fit in together, unless they only want to be a playmate or friends with benefit without any emotional attachment to the friendship.

For instance many men love soccer, if you are dating a guy who cherishes to watch soccer; it will be good if you join him in watching the soccer those things build intimacy in relationships. Don’t try to discourage him or frown when he’s watching soccer.

Phone calls:

We are now in the world of technology; maintaining constant communication with your lover will never be a problem again. Phone calls are very important in a relationship. If you want to maintain a healthy relationship never stop picking your lovers phone calls.

Many relationships will be saved if lovers inculcate the habit of answering their calls most especially when there is misunderstanding or quarrel between them. When you have issue with your boyfriend and you stop picking his calls, you are endangering the future of the relationship.

If he should call you couple of time and you blatantly refused to answer; he may assume that you have moved on. Lovers use phone calls some times to punish themselves without knowing that they are putting the future of the relationship into jeopardy.

I hope you enjoyed this piece of advice about relationship; I would love to hear your own opinion or suggestion in the comment box below.

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