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Tips on How to Make Women Happy

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Do not cheat on her: Women find it hard forgiving their husband when they cheat on them; most especially when the woman is putting all her best to remain faithful to the husband. If you are looking for a tip on how to make a woman happy, this particular tip is for you. Be faithful to her and she will be happy in the relationship.

Provide her needs: Women have lots of needs providing some of them will make her happy. Women believe that the way to show them love is by taking care of their needs. If you are able to provide a woman need, you will become her prince charming.

Buy her gift: Women love luxury, if you want to make a woman happy, buy her expensive gifts and you will become her prince charming.

Have a forgiving spirit: Women love men who can easily forgive wrong done to them. Many guys would hold on to offense done to them, but that’s not the type of guy girls want.

Forgiveness is very important in every relationship; if you do not forgive your partner you will hardly make a future together. If you want your woman to be happy, make it easy for her to receive your forgiveness whenever she asks of it.

Maintain constant communication: Communication is vital in relationship, whenever there is problem in communication the relationship wrecks. Girls who are in love would always demand to hear the voice of their boyfriend each and every passing day. When you stop communicating with her for whatsoever reason that will make her feel bad. Avoid such attitude.

Tell her how much you earn: Women love men who are truthful in all things. Though not all men love disclosing how much they earn to their wife; disclosing how much you earn is good if you have a good wife.

When you are in a loving relationship or married to a woman who wants your greatness, telling her how much you earn will never be a bad idea. It will make the woman to feel happy especially when the paycheck contains reasonable amount.

Stop beating her: Many of our African women hate the idea of wife beating as a form of correcting her mistakes.  If you are looking for a tip on how to make a woman happy in relationship or in marriage, this particular tip is for you.

Give her your love and attention: Many married people do not understand the importance of attention in marriage. Do not make her miserable by begging for your love and attention. Give your wife or girlfriend your love and attention, is her right for being your girl.

Take her along with you: Stop making your wife feel as a baby factory in your home. Men should stop the idea of leaving their wife at home whenever they want to hang out with friends. Little things matter in relationship. She wants you to make her your queen, kings and queens don’t stay apart.

Marry her: Women of our time love relationship that ends in marriage. Do not date her for another to marry. Date her and settle down with her and she will feel great.

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How to Forgive and Forget in Marriage

How to Forgive and Forget in Marriage

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If forgiveness should be scrapped from marriage and couples are to face the consequences of their actions, just know that lots of marriages would collapse. Marriage is very fulfilling and great when couples learn to forgive and forget. Any marriage that dwells on the past is likely to fail. The high rate of divorce in our community today is as a result of unforgiving spirit among married people.

Marriage is a sacred union instituted by God. Couples who understand the importance of forgiveness in marriage will surely preserve their marriage. How to forgive and forget in a marriage is a topic am so keen to discuss in this post. One of the tips to long lasting marriage is forgiveness.

Not only to forgive but when you forgive do your best to forget.Forgetting wrong done to you by your partner will help your marriage and your health too. When you forgive your partner and you don’t forget the wrong, you are just heaping charcoal that may burn you up.

Human body is created in such a way that when you worry so much, it start to affect your brain or even your whole body system. Is vital to forget when you forgive, though is not always that easy; but just do it for the sake of your marriage.

One of the ways you can forgive and forget wrong done to you in marriage is by knowing the weaker part of your partner. Every human being has its own weaker part that other people may find very unpleasant.

If your partner is very abusive, is not a reason to hit her; rather fathom the cause of her behavior, she wasn’t like that before you married her. If your wife abuses you for staying late at night or for not coming home on time; don’t start devising a means to punish her, rather I suggest you take her along if you so much love night outing.

She too should enjoy what you are enjoying at night that would help to bring peace in your home. Also, another way to forgive and forget wrong done to you in marriage is by remembering what both of you hold so dear. It could be child, investment or your love story.

Before you divorce your partner, think of what your kids could go through – growing without parental care or growing up in a broken home. When you thought of these things, you have to forgive all wrong done to you in marriage.

Some will say that marriage is not a bed of roses, but I so much believe that couple who want to make their marriage great can still do it. All it requires is treating your partner the way you want to be treated. Your level of success or investment can be an antidote to any form of escalation in your marriage.

When you look at the effort both you and your partner put to achieve great wealth, I don’t think you would love to throw away such a memory. Couples that build wealth together will always maintain it when they are together.

But if they decide to split it or divorce, one person may suffer setback. It will be good if you and your husband continues together to uphold what you hold together. Great love stories are true life stories. If you are fortunate to have a great love story do not throw it out overnight. Your love story can serve as a panacea when there is misunderstanding in your marriage.

When you remember what both of you have been together and how two of you overcame the raging storm, let that love stories remedy your marriage. These are how to forgive and forget in a marriage. The strength you have put to build a true love story, do not let the end be tragic.

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The Benefit of Supporting Your Wife in Marriage

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A tree can never make a forest and no man is an island that’s why in a marriage or in a relationship couples need each other’s support to survive.There’s a saying that to every successful man, there is a woman behind him. So also to every great woman of our time, there is a man supporting her.

Many women achieve little of their God given talent due to suppression from their husband. Many men are afraid of the fact, that their woman becomes uncontrollable when they achieve greatness.

Some men centre’s on this notion and in order to avoid any form of unruly behavior from their wife, kept on suppressing her to earth.But how true is that? Fear is a powerful force that can tear a relationship apart, when a relationship lacks trust, fear comes in; that’s why some men act based on their fear.

 Frankly speaking, we cannot generalize every woman character based on one individual trait and attributes.It best to marry the person you love and trust not to marry based on the individual physique or personal achievement.

When a woman marries her soul mate, she will get every support she seeks from her husband. Some men tongue can be very deceptive, making you believe you are one soul with him.

In a relationship, you have to be very careful when making a choice.To every young man out there, I urge you to support your wife in her chosen career and that’s how to make a woman happy. Supporting her will surely boost her morale to conquer every odd.

Every woman in our society today has one or two thing she desire to achieve in life, help her achieve her dream.Don’t keep her in bondage because of fear. Help her to be great. She too can be like those women you watch on television.

Some men admire other people’s wife, how beautiful they look and the success they have achieved. Your wife can be like her even better off.Only your support and trust she needs to explore her God’s given talent.

Many families are poor due to inability of couples to support each other. A man can support the wife and vice versa.The benefit of supporting your wife in marriage boils down to this true life story am about to share.

 This is a story of a young man, who does his business at Onitsha (Nigeria). He provides for his family, though resources weren’t enough to cater for all the needs of the family.

 When the wife gave birth to her last baby, she aired her desire to start a crayfish business. The husband did not stop the water that is about to flow rather he encouraged her. He told the wife to give him some time to source for start up money for her.

Later, the husband went further to seek opinion of his friends on the business the wife wants to start. His friends were of the opinion that the wife will become stubborn and hard to control when she start amassing wealth.

Due to the love he had for his wife he couldn’t succumb to his friend advice to stop the wife from trading. He rather dipped hand in his savings and brought out 300,000 naira for the wife’s business. The wife was highly glad and she started the business immediately.

After three years in business, one blessed day she woke the husband up around 4am and told him, that she is tired of living in another man’s house. ‘Is time we buy land and start building our own house’ she said.

The husband was just sober that morning listening to the wife until the woman brought out two million naira and gave to him to buy land for the house. The husband couldn’t believe himself; the high level of joy that erupted in his heart was like a volcanic eruption.

It was a morning of joy for the family. The husband later bought a land at the cost of 600,000 naira and used the remaining money to start the building. Through their combined effort they were able to finish the building on time. This is little of what a woman can do for their husband and family.

Dear husband is time you set yourself free by letting that woman beside you free. Don’t fear that men will come after her. Women are strong and clever, if they want to mess around in that your cage, they can and still bear the consequences thereafter.

Though, I do not advocate for that. My aim of writing this post is to educate young men on the benefit of supporting your wife in marriage. Not all women can be like the woman I told in my story, we have different individual qualities. Your wife can be unique in her own way.

There are different ways you can support your woman, she may decide to further her education and seeks your support, is your duty as a loving husband to support her.

Don’t tell her she not going to work with the degree, don’t tell her is a waste of time and money. You can encourage her to enroll on online college course. Many relationship dies because of one partner selfishness and unwillingness to support the other.

Is good for husband to be protective over their wife; but do not be over-protective that you consider her progress a threat. We all want to love and be loved, loving your wife and supporting her dream will solidify the relationship and increases intimacy in your marriage.

Marriage is always enjoyable when you plan it well. Never let fear destroy your marriage. To my dear young women, you too can support your husband also. Some women have made the life of their husband pitiable due to the man’s inability to provide all the needs of the family.

 In this life every man destiny are not the same. You can help him where you think his weak at for the family to move forward. It must not be the man that will provide all the needs of the family. If you are better off financially you too can help.

This text is meant to encourage families and to portray the benefits of supporting your wife in marriage.

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How to Save Your Marriage From Collapsing

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The rate of divorce in the world is increasing day by day. What would be the course of this increase in divorce? I will be rolling out points in this blog post on how you can protect your marriage from collapsing. Marriage is an institution created by God for man and woman to stay together and consummate their love in friendship and mutual respect.

These days marriage is no longer build on friendship and mutual respect is now more of obligation to fulfill, that’s the major reasons why there is problem in today’s marriage.

If you are keen in saving your marriage from collapsing, kindly read this article to the end to assimilate the ways to protect your marriage for collapse.

Avoid extra marital affairs:

Respect your marriage if you want to save it from collapsing. Nowadays couples no longer keep their marital vows. Marriage is not where you behave as if you were single, when you say I do to that handsome man or pretty lady, you have to understand the need to keep your marital vow sacred.

Those who don’t respect their marriage, usually face issue of divorce because major cause of divorce is infidelity. When you don’t respect your marriage that when you start to involve yourself into extra marital affairs. If you are into extra marital affairs turn away from such because you may be digging the hole that will collapse your marriage.

Mutual respect:

Stubbornness, disobedience, lack of respect can cause you your marriage. Have mutual respect for your partner and you will save your marriage from collapsing. Don’t fight equality with your husband; many women have lost their marriage by fighting the authority of their husband.

Save your marriage from collapsing by respecting the authority of your husband. The same goes to the men; you don’t subject your wife to modern day slavery and expect her to accord you full respect. If couples want their marriage to stand the test of time they must learn how to respect each other, otherwise they should be ready to weave bye to their marriage.

Develop trust with your partner:

Suspicion comes into marriage when there is lack of trust. Save your marriage from collapsing by building mutual trust with your partner. When couples build trust, they hardly suspect each other. They grow with one love being mindful of the need to preserve their marriage from collapse. Any marriage that lacks trust is likely to face divorce. The beauty of marriage is trust, without it marriage is just another thing.

The ways you can build trust with your partner is by being truthful and honest all the time. Trust comes gradually and what builds it is honesty, when your partner notices that you are being honest, he or she will start to build trust in you.

Shun every form of lies, deception and dishonesty in your character and see how secure your marriage will become. If you take these three tips very serious you will be saving your marriage from total collapse.

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Disadvantages of Living Together Before Marriage

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Marriage is a beautiful thing but to some women is not an easy journey. It’s always the desire of every young man and woman to get married to their heartthrob. In this life we all desire for good things and good things we all hope to get. Your desire for good things should not put you into some behaviors that are unhealthy.

Some girls willingly move into their boyfriend’s apartment hoping that things will work as they have hoped. To some it may work but to others reverse may be the case. The word cohabit means to live together and have a sexual relationship without being married.

The aim of this post is to point out the disadvantages of living together before marriage.

Delay in bride prize:

Cohabiting with a man can cause delay in paying your bride prize. When a girl move into a man house hoping it would necessitate his desire to do the needful (bride prize) you are making a big mistake. Men marry for different reasons, don’t make yourself cheep by cohabiting with him; it may land you to a life of regret. When you start living with a man you are not married to, you are exposing yourself to lots of dangers. Living together before marriage is dangerous. You may miss your rightful soul mate on the process, or even get pregnant which you wouldn’t want. He can even throw you out after the adventures with him.

Save yourself from tomorrow’s misery now you have the time. Remove the thought that you living with him, would help protect him from being snatch by other girls. Stop fighting for man’s attention, self development should be paramount to you now. When your soul mate comes, you wouldn’t fight for his attention with other girls; it comes natural.

Health issues/unwanted pregnancy:

It’s easy to develop health issues when cohabiting with a man. Many young people that cohabit often engage in unprotected sex, which is not healthy for their well being. You can easily get pregnant or even get infected with diseases during unprotected sex. Most of the girls that cohabit with a boy, once they get pregnant always go for abortion and abortion has its own complications; If not well done can cause serious problem in the womb. Cohabiting with a man has caused many girls to indulge in series of abortions.

A certain girl was cohabiting with his boyfriend while in school on the process had three abortions for the boy. In their final year the girl asked the guy his plan towards her, the boy told her, he has no intention of marrying her. The girl was so devastated after all they had been through together and the sacrifices she had made for the relationship all is about to be swept out of the room. Is a pity that human being is unpredictable, that why you have to trade with caution when dealing with anyone.

Today is the best day to make good decision for your life; you can visit your boyfriend but living together before marriage is harmful and should be discouraged. The health issues is not limited to the womb alone, when a man you are cohabiting with sends you out of his house after he has gotten enough feel of you, it can cause you mental pressure.

 Some girls are not always the same when the man they gave all their best turns back at them. In order to avoid all these regrets in the near future, avoid cohabiting with a man before marriage.

Lowers your dignity:

I guess you still want your man to have some respect for you after marriage; if so don’t lower yourself dignity by cohabiting with him before marriage. Cohabiting with a man can make the man see you as a sex object for his satisfaction. When a girl move into a man house you will definitely start to perform the function of a wife to him i.e. cook, wash and have sex with him etc. he many just see you as a treasure he has gotten on a platter of gold. Marriage is not a quest, prepare and plan your life.

Shame to your family:

When you move into a man house you are simply disgracing your family. It is the wish of every parent to give out their daughters to a well deserving suitor. Don’t bring disgrace to your parent by living together before marriage. Many young girls of this age often cohabit with their boyfriend during their university education. Many have also confessed of having two to three abortions for their boyfriend while in school.

How do you think your parent will feel if they find out you are living with a man and he got you pregnant and you aborted it. Show yourself and your parents some respect by moving out of that boys house, if his in serious need of you, he should do the needful (bride prize). Chopping what doesn’t belong to him is stealing, I hope you understand.

Regret:

Cohabiting with a man can cause life time regret. Let me share a short story of a girl that lived with her boyfriend for a long period of time. They both had a baby girl together on the cause of cohabiting. Unfortunately the young man died in motor accident, the girl was left alone to mourn her life. She was not legally or traditionally married to the young man; they only met in the city and fell in love and had a baby girl together.

The girl doesn’t know the home town of the boy, though she had been disturbing the boy to take her to his people, he kept on postponing until the painful tragedy happened. When the boy’s family heard about the accident, they came and took his body for burial. The family did not ask about the way about of the girl that had a baby for their son because they are not in support of the relationship.

When the news came to them that their son was living with a girl, they felt the girl bewitched their son. This girl was left alone in the world to regret her decision for accepting to live with the boy. It’s very nice to fall in love but do not let it blind you. If a man wants you to start living with him urge him to come with his family and see yours according to tradition. Small keg of palm wine with kola he can make his intention known.

The both families can organize a low budget wine carrying and paying of dowry so that you as a girl can be proud to live with him as your husband.

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